Renowned Nigerian actress and singer, Shaffy Bello, shares her perspective on the ongoing controversies surrounding the question of what a partner contributes to a relationship.

In a recent episode of the 'Me, Her and Everything Else' podcast, the seasoned performer asserts that men have a legitimate reason to inquire about a woman's contributions to a relationship.

Taking on the perspective of a man, Shaffy Bello unequivocally expresses her reluctance to marry a woman who is a burden.

She emphasizes that being a responsible and industrious woman is, in fact, an appealing quality, as opposed to someone who is consistently dependent and feels entitled.

“I would tell the ladies, never tell a man, ‘Why are you asking me what do I bring to the table?’ I’m sorry, I’m not one of those; I think we both should ask ourselves, ‘What are we bringing to the table.’

If he’s bringing something to the table, you should bring something to the table. I don’t want to marry a liability if I was a man. As a matter of fact, you look more attractive that way. You can’t just be needy, that’s not attractive,” she added.

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