In a recent and candid interview conducted by the popular media personality Toke Makinwa, the renowned actor Jim Iyke opened up about how his delayed process of grieving had ultimately led to the end of his marriage.

At the outset of the interview, Jim Iyke initially appeared hesitant to delve into the topic of his marriage and divorce. However, as Toke Makinwa gently encouraged him to share his story, he offered valuable insights into the very reasons behind the dissolution of his relationship.

Jim Iyke pointed to delayed grief as the root cause of his marriage's demise. He revealed that the crux of the issue was his inability to properly mourn the loss of his late mother.

The actor confessed that he had postponed the grieving process, and when he finally confronted this sorrow, it had already taken a toll on his marriage.

His mother held an exceptionally significant place in his heart, and her passing had been an incredibly devastating blow. Jim Iyke recounted the heart-wrenching moment when he received the news of his mother's demise during a BBC interview, leaving him utterly shattered.

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He also shared that he was constructing a house for his beloved mother before she died.

Jim Iyke also revealed that he had to step into the role of the strong male figure in his family, being the only male child. This left him with little time for emotional expression. While others in his family mourned openly, he assumed the role of a pillar of strength.

It was only after the conclusion of the burial ceremonies that Jim Iyke began to confront his own emotions. He initially struggled to identify the source of his inner conflict until he found himself arguing over trivial matters, such as his mother’s belongings, particularly her jewelry. His inability to part with her possessions showed him that his mourning process had yet to run its course.

During this challenging period, Jim Iyke’s wife attempted to provide emotional support and love, but he admitted that he was incapable of reciprocating her affections. Instead, he transferred the bulk of his affection to their child, which created tension in his marriage. He recounted his wife’s understandable jealousy as he showered their child with attention at a time when she needed it as well.

In an attempt to address the emotional turbulence Jim Iyke was experiencing, his wife suggested therapy as a potential solution. However, he hesitated, clinging to a traditional belief that therapy was not suitable for an African man like him. Looking back, he regrets not having embraced this opportunity for professional help.

His wife eventually reached a breaking point, realizing that Jim Iyke’s ongoing mourning for his mother had left their relationship in ruins.

Despite the dissolution of their union, Jim Iyke speaks fondly of his former spouse and holds her in high regard. He cherishes the memories of their time together and the partnership that marriage offered. He expressed his enduring love for the institution of marriage and his desire to explore it once more in the future, embracing the opportunity to be responsible for and share his life with another.

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