In just this year, a significant number of celebrities, particularly in the United States, have initiated divorce proceedings with their spouses. From Ariana Grande to Britney Spears, Sofia Vergara, and numerous others, the list goes on.

As the frequency of divorce cases continues to rise, Nollywood actress, Dayo Amusa has expressed her perspective on marriage and its complexities. In a detailed message posted on her Instagram, the actress highlighted the common misconception that marriage can alleviate loneliness, often leading to unrealistic expectations.

According to Dayo, a partner's role isn't to complete an individual, but rather to address their fundamental needs and share their burdens. She stressed that marriage is a substantial commitment that shouldn't be hurried into and isn't suitable for everyone.

The actress also advocated for self-love, emphasizing that one can't give to another what they lack within themselves.

“I sometimes wonder if marriage is a must. Then I come to the conclusion that it isn’t for everyone. Who we marry is one of the most important decisions in life, the concept of marriage has taken a new turn lately as we’ve witnessed not only a high rate of divorce & separation but partners devising violent methods to end their marriage. O sad gan ni.

If you think marriage will cure your loneliness, you’ll be having too many unrealistic expectations. Your partner is not meant to fulfill you, hë or she is not designed to meet your desired needs or bear every burden you face in life.

Marriage no be for everyone o, some people just want to be single and that’s okay. But even some people who are in happy relationships shouldn’t necessarily be running to the altar. Getting married is a massive commitment. I believe so bcos you’re committing to spending a lot of time together+ there is the till death do us part, but which really shouldn’t be taken lightly rara. But some of us are not sure about what party that we want to take & that’s okay. Marriage is not one-size-fits-all.

Even if you’re ready to commit to one person, you don’t necessarily have to do that in a white dress with a whole lot of paperwork. Commitment can look different to different people.
Marriage is the right option for some people but for others, it may not be the right fit. Give yourself a chance to decide.

Love yourself, know that you’re beautiful, and don’t give up on yourself for others.

What you don’t have, you can’t give.

You can’t pour from an empty cup”.

There is sense in this to an extent.

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