Popular Nollywood Nigerian actress, singer, songwriter, humanitarian, and politician, Tonto Dikeh, has shared some of the key things she has learned in her thirty-eight years of existence.

Taking to her Instagram page, the mother of one advised against divulging every detail about one’s life to family and friends, as she claims it would backfire.

Tonto Dikeh also said seeking closure after a failed relationship is a scam and it is better to move forward and focus on rebuilding one’s life.

Speaking further, the 38-year-old thespian emphasized the importance of having multiple streams of income. She also encouraged people to explore opportunities that generate daily income, describing it as a modern form of self-love and self-care.

Read her full post below,

“Things I have learnt in 38years

-Never tell your family everything, it will back fire.
-Never tell your friends everything, it will back fire.
-Never tell anyone how much you have in the bank, that’s for you and the bank alone.
-DONT BE TOO NICE, not everyone has your heart.Be a GOOD PERSON BUT NOT A TOO NICE PERSON.
-No one is like you, Embrace your uniqueness..
-Show yourself as much love as you can!!
-Be selfish with your Space, Boundaries, Love and Trust.
-Multiple streams of income is the new SELF LOVE, SELFCARE AND BIGGEST BOSS MOVE.
-No matter how little start something that brings daily income
-Fixed deposits is the biggest scam, next time ask your bank you want to invest with them and watch your self become a billionaire
-Finding closure is a scam,Move on and Rebuild. Be your own motivation to be better and do better.”

Nice one Ma'am.

Experience is the best teacher