Dear Jzhane,
I met Toun in church. We started dating after getting to know each other like a few months later.
Truthfully,she is a nice girl.church girl,prayerful,faithful,respectful and all. We actually got engaged later on.
I love this girl but I am a bit worried about her attitude. she appears to be a bit clingy.
Here is what I mean:
If I dont call her everyday,she gets offended
If we are walking or going somewhere,she wants me to hold her hands
She wants to sit with me in church all the time. Or anywhere we go to,like a wedding.
One time I traveled on official assignment . I lost my phone on the trip so I couldn’t call her.
When I got back,she was so upset and broke up with me. She accused me of going to see a girl.
If she sees another girl with me,she gets upset. Starts asking questions and making the other person uncomfortable.
We have talked about this behavior several times . She says she is helplessly in love with me. Is that a good or a bad thing?
I want to know because, I don’t want to regret going ahead to marry her.
If there is anything,I am not the kind of guy that likes to be controlled by a woman.
Is this love or just plain annoyance?…Am already frustrated by this behavior of hers
 
From Jeffery,
Ogba,Lagos


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