Marriage Teaching Series.

Topic:- WHY WE HAVE MORE UNMARRIED SISTERS IN THE CHURCHES. ( Part 1)

Proverbs 12:4
[4]A virtuous and worthy wife [earnest and strong in character] is a crowning joy to her husband, but she who makes him ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.

Proverbs 14:1
[1]EVERY WISE woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands.

Proverbs 31:10
[10]A capable, intelligent, and virtuous woman–who is he who can find her? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies or pearls.

I will not stop my teachings on marriage tipl Christ returns. It's a ministry given to me to confront the attacks of the devil on the subject of marriage.

Marriage is one of the most blissful and important things that God has ever created. The devil knows the importance of marriage that's why he is using all strategies to fight the institution of marriage. I will not be dealing widely on the total subject of marriage this time, but on major reasons why we have more unmarried ladies in our churches today more than unmarried brothers.

I have personally made up my research and discovered that 80% of the singles in most churches that are due or overdue for marriage are ladies. It grieved my heart that I needed to teach on this. At least to save someone from the common mistakes that ladies make.

1. CHARACTER DISORDER:- It is a painful thing that most of our single sisters have problem when it comes to the issue of character.
Some are full of anger, pride, jealousy and very difficult to relate with.

Some sisters are very rude, arrogant and stubborn in doing things.

Unless I am blind, there are some sisters in the churches I can never think of marrying and will also advise brothers that want Godly home not to marry the sisters that are not having good character.

2. LACK OF PREPARATION
Almost every lady in our churches today that is below the age of 35 is not ready for marriage. Because of feminism, some ladies want to compete with men in the society so they spend their early years to build themselves to become argumentative ladies who are not ready for marriage. It is amazing that we find this kind of sisters in the church. If you want a good home I will advise you not to join the feminism revolution.

3. IGNORANCE
Ignorance has kept many church going ladies from the reality of marriage. Some ladies do not take the issue of marriage serious until they are 35 or 40 years of age. Let me tell ladies that unless God has instructed you not to marry at all, which is very possible, you are not complete as a grown up lady when you are not married, the same thing is applicable to brothers anyway. Do not be ignorant of the reality of marriage.

4. WRONG EXPECTATIONS
Many ladies, including the tongue speaking sisters in our churches are waiting for that well-established and ready-made brothers that will marry them.

Some ladies have been taught that they are responsibilities for brothers, so they must married rich and not to grow wealth with any brother.

The truth is that, rich brothers have this characteristics of having no respect for their wives, because they believe the sister was only interested in their money which is the truth in some cases. And research has also shown that money does not guarantee a happy home. Dear sisters, I am not saying you should not marry a rich guy if you have access to him. But it is more advisable to marry a man that you can grow in wealth together so that you will know that you build your home together to what you wanted it to be. Rich guys treat wives with that respect.