You can’t force a person to love you, but that doesn’t
mean that there aren’t things that you can do to help
things along a little bit. This isn’t about playing
manipulative mind games with a person, it’s about
helping someone who you love realise just how much
they love you. If you’d like your partner to love you
even more, and to show it, read these ten tips that
will help open up his eyes to just how much he really
does love you.
1. Don’t try so hard
The very fact that you are reading this might be an
indication that perhaps you are just trying too hard.
Ease back a bit, give him some space and don’t
keep expecting him to tell you how much he loves
you. Men don’t like being put under pressure and his
love for you will grow much quicker, if he is left to
make that decision for himself.
2. Make him laugh a lot
The more you make him laugh, the more he’s going
to want to spend time with you. Men are no different
from women in this respect, if you have fun with
someone, you will become more and more attached
to them. Be prepared to make fun of yourself too. It’s
much easier to love someone who does not take
themselves, or life, too seriously.
3. Let him see the real you
It’s great fun putting on the makeup and getting
dressed in your best outfits for a guy, but don’t be
afraid to look natural sometimes too. He will
appreciate it when you make the effort to look great
for a night out, but he also wants to get to know the
real you. You don’t need to impress him all the time;
it’s the person that he will learn to love more, not the
makeup and the designer clothes.
4. Show him that you are independent
How is he going to know how much he would miss
you, if you are always there at his beck and call? He
should know that you have a life outside of the
relationship and you should go out with your friends
sometimes. There’s no harm at all in him knowing
that you can be independent, it will actually make him
want you all the more.
5. Get to know the things that he likes
Although there is no point in you pretending that you
have become a football fan overnight, you could take
an interest in some of the things that he likes to do.
If he is a sports fan, you could sit and watch a game
with him instead of disappearing off into another room
or, at the very least, ask him who won. He will really
appreciate it if you take an interest in his hobbies and
pastimes.
6. Give him compliments
If you are in a relationship with a guy, then he
already knows that you like him, but he’d still like to
get some complements sometimes. Tell him when
you think he’s done something well, or let him know
that you like the way he looks in his new clothes.
Everyone likes to receive compliments, so don’t hold
back. Who wouldn’t fall in love with someone who
flatters them and makes them feel good about
themselves?
7. Get along with his friends and family
You can’t guarantee that you will adore all of his
family, or that you will like all of his friends, but you
should do your level best to get along with them.
Being nice to his friends and his family is sign of
respect for your partner and he will love you for
making the effort, even if you can’t stand some of his
buddies. The worst thing you can do is to make
enemies of those in his close circle, because that will
be embarrassing for him and awkward for you.
8. Keep a bit of mystery about yourself
Men love a bit of mystery, so don’t give everything
away all at one go. Let him discover more and more
about you, as time goes on, and then he will love the
surprises and he will keep coming back to find out
more.
9. Make him proud of you
Don’t be afraid to share your successes with him,
because he will enjoy them as much as you do. Let
him see that you can win and he will be so proud of
you, he will love you even more. Most men like a
woman who has ambition, drive and passion, and
they will want to share that with you and help you
achieve your goals.
10. Be there for him when he needs you
One of the hardest things for man to do is ask for
help, so let him know that you are there, if he needs
you, and then follow that promise up with action, if
and when the moment comes. Men are not as half as
tough as they make themselves out to be, so become
his motivation and support, and will love you all the
more for it.