"When a purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is innevitable" (Blessed memory; Myles Munroe). This is a true saying. Everything God created, He created for a purpose. By the way what is purpose?
This can simply be defined as the reason for One's or a Thing living/existence.
The Marriage institution was founded by God Himself and if anyone who intend to venture into this institution will succeed in it must meet the founder and keep on going to Him for guidiance. When God was creating the marriage institute He had an intention of what it should be about. Until you understand this that the marriage institution is not just for two parties who wants to have fun or self pleasure just wake up one day and just decide to come together to achieve their sexual hunger. No! The Marriage institution is beyond that. God form this institution for the accomplishment of His plan upon the earth.
Every Marriage as design by God is to serve His purpose. In other words, it's to help established and push the agenda of the kingdom of God upon the earth.
Whose agenda is your marriage pushing? God or the devil? This is a question you must keep asking yourself as a married couple and you who is planning to go into this institution you must also ask yourself this same question - whose agenda do I want my marriage to serve it push? I pray that, you will answer this question correctly in Jesus name...
Am Erhiuremu David Obukadeta by name. God bless you.