Hi everyone.
This is my first post here and I want to talk about how to be in charge of ur relationship. Yes u heard me right, u can be in charge of ur relationship; be u a man or a woman.
Now how is this possible?
Many people have had failed relationships because they tried to be in control of it and went about it the wrong way, but am here to give u d good news - there is a way to be in control of ur relationship and still make it work out fine.
First and foremost, we need to understand something- for these guidelines am about to gv u to work, u have to be in a relationship for d right reasons.
There are key elements that make a relationship to last longer- compatibility, love, selflessness, forgiveness and support.
U lack these? Then get them.
U got them? Then let's proceed.
To be in control in a relationship, u need to be ready to accept d fact dat u r dealing with a human, who definitely is not infallible. Therefore u need to put up with the person's flaws without hating him/her. For instance, if u hv a partner that doesn't accept blame wen angry, don't shout back at him/her when he is angry, play d 'fool' for d moment, then when d person is calm, tell him hw wrong he/she was. Dis is a proven method which has changed people over time and yet removes nothing from u but rather puts u in control because ur partner will respect u for ur maturity, love u more and tries to learn from u.
This of course, works where there is love, compatibility(understanding), and trust.
(To be continued)